When the children grow up, parents begin to recall many moments related to education, in which it was necessary to act differently. Girls and boys have huge differences in both physical and emotional terms, therefore, help in the development of the child should differ. So what mistakes should not be made when raising a son?
A big problem can be a child of a child at any age. The child is lying. What to do? The tips of the psychologist. Try to quickly and effectively suppress the baby’s lies, because otherwise it can result in big problems over time, both for your family and your child in particular.
Nobody is the main educator, the responsibilities are divided between mom and dad equally, but a man must lay values, and above all, the correct attitude towards a woman. Therefore, quarrels and swearing with a child should not be, even if you can’t hold back. A man who is less susceptible to emotions than a woman can be easier to avoid, reduce them to a trifle, or move to where the child will not hear and see the “showdown” of parents.
Children’s thinking is very different from the adult. Therefore, the upbringing in the spirit of “do everything yourself” and “I will not help” will not wake the desire to do better in the baby, on the contrary, he will be offended and not understand why mom and dad do not want to support him. In the future, this will lead to sad consequences when an adult man will consider that the family is not a support and support on the life of the path.
In no case can you be categorical with the child. If he cannot comprehend something that his peers are already easy to do, this is not a reason to say the offensive phrase “you will never learn”, because then he really will never learn. Any appeal of the parent to his child is recognized by him as an attitude to a certain action, so we must say «you will succeed a little later». It is proved that it really turns out.
