Most women dream of becoming a mother. But there are those who are categorically against having children ..
Now it is fashionable to have an active life position. Suppose a person loves kiwi. But not only loves, but publicly declares this. Moreover, looking for supporters, communicates with them on the forums, curses with those who prefer oranges … This, of course, is an exaggeration, but it is such a mouse fuss that resembles the activities of many modern movements. Including such a direction as Childfri.
I’m not like everyone else!
Translated from English “Child -Fri” — “freedom from children”, that is, voluntary childless. It sounds wildly, isn’t it? But supporters of this movement do not think so … Moreover, the desire to give birth to “later” or the inability to conceive does not have the slightest attitude to this. Just these women deliberately abandon motherhood.
Adherents of this current can be conditionally divided into two categories: radical, actively defending their position
and attackers on everyone else — and moderate, who do not want to have children, but not calling for anyone.
The opinion of Childfrey as a whole is created precisely by radical representatives who love to arrange a lot of noise from nothing. They, as a rule, cannot stand children and they find “respectful” reasons: from them, they say, only noise, dirt, nervous and other troubles. And they contemptuously call “ovulyashki” giving birth to women.
The protest sounds in all this: “Society imposes on me the role of my mother, but I do not want!”And society begins to react: in resort areas for them, hotels are opened in which they do not settle with children under 16 years of age ..
These women, to be honest, a little sorry. It is worth recalling Freud, who claimed that all the problems of adults go into childhood with their roots. Perhaps one of them said mother: “I diluted all youth on you, but you do not value you!”Or:“ There are only problems from children!»
Such statements form a negative attitude to motherhood, as to something extremely undesirable, painful.
Add oils to the fire and some “tactful” doctors who call pregnant women over 25 years “old -born”. Well, parents get them with their susykan: «Giving birth to us by the grandson …»
I love, but I don’t want
Fortunately, the vast majority of Childfri belong to the category of moderate. They do not have hatred for children. Moreover, some sincerely love them. But strangers! And they explain their refusal to have a child with different reasons: F financial problems and poor living conditions; F The desire to spend time exclusively on yourself and a career; F The desire to keep the girlish figure and not spoil the chest with feeding;
• fear of pregnancy, and even more childbirth;
• confidence that bringing the child to our world, complete suffering, immorally.
And yet … to have or not have children — a personal business of everyone. But giving birth to a child from a loved one is the greatest joy, which is incomparable with either the shape of the chest, or with career achievements. With nothing.
